Silver Rings-Part Of Non-Verbal Communication?

Silver jewellery is becoming more fashionable all the time, as creative designers present us with fabulous choices of intricate or simple silver rings, bracelets and necklaces and many of them including pearls, crystals and other decorations. They make us feel individual and stylish, and it is possible to build up a good collection because they can be found inexpensively especially on some websites.

What is more about silver jewellery is it forms part of our non-verbal communication, in the same way as our body language, clothes, hairstyle, way of looking at other people and a whole range of other subtle factors. Depending on your personal preferences you may find that you are drawn immediately towards someones hands, to see how they use them and their shape and of course if they wear silver rings or gold, or some kind of costume jewellery. It all goes to make up the feeling you are associating with the person on a subconscious and conscious level.

Taking silver rings as an example, the first thing many people will assume is that the wearer does not feel the need to communicate anything too ostentatiously. More than likely this person is confident and wishes you to evaluate them over time, not just in a quick flash. Remember that spoken language is only 7 to 35% of communication. The vast majority of our intentions are sent through non-verbal communication and those who master the subtleties of this subject have a distinct advantage in life.

Bearing in mind that in many cultures we will shake hands upon greeting people, what you wear on this part of your body is quickly noticeable. Of course other cultures have other greetings, such as kissing on the cheek but even still the eyes are drawn to the hands when people talk to each other, as they are often used in expression.

It is wise to remember this when choosing silver rings from or to add to your collection. For example you may be quite a flamboyant person who likes rings which include dramatic designs and big stones. However if going into new business situations, unless you happen to work in a creative field, it can be better to wear one of your less dramatic designs. This is to prevent people receiving mixed messages and losing their attention when perhaps you are trying to deliver an important business message.

Of course socially it is much better to be open about your preferences, as this way the silver rings people see on your hands, can be very useful in attracting more suitable social contacts. If you are an outgoing person who likes to meet other people who are also outgoing, then it is important to wear a silver ring that communicates this about you. Do not try to play yourself down on a friend's advice who happens to have quieter taste, as you may be surprised to be caught in conversations with people that just are not your type, and then you can have the difficult job of extricating yourself.

So remember to choose silver rings which communicate subtly in your business life, unless your job requires you to be more centre stage. Socially you can enjoy your favourite silver rings and let them communicate a little of who you are across a social gathering.